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An international school in India with a message for the world

I spent seven years of my life right here in Woodstock School, Mussoorie, India.

To my mind, this is truly one of the most beautiful places on earth, 7000 ft up in the Himalayas. But actually that's not the most important thing about it.  I was invited back there this past week to give a speech to the students, and had a chance to say something I'd wanted to say for years. I told them this:


The last time I was in this hall was in 1970 when I was in the 8th grade.  And if you could zoom a camera back through time to that seat right there,  you would have seen a shy, geeky, overweight kid wearing badly-fitting clothes and spending an unhealthy amount of time bemoaning the fact that none of the cute girls would go out with him. 

But if you could have somehow continued to zoom the camera right inside the head of that 8th grader you'd have seen something strage. You'd see that something subtle had happened to his brain, something that was directly attributable to his experience of being at Woodstock, something that would profoundly shape his future. And I'm not talking about Math or Social Studies.  I'm talking about something that few of the world's children get to experience.

Most kids grow up with people who, by and large, are like them. Same town, same country, same color, same income level, same cultural assumptions.   At Woodstock... not so much. When you first come here, it's a jolt, isn't it? Admittedly it's one of the world's most beautiful places, but you have to mix with kids from what, 25 countries? And some of them seem downright weird.  But then over the months and years, you get to know each other. You learn their stories, they learn yours... and without even really thinking about it, you learn that those superficial differences of race, nationality, color really don't matter that much. We're all just people. We all laugh, we all cry, we all love, we all bleed.  

Now tragically that way of thinking puts you in a small minority of earth's people. After you've been here a while it seems strange anyone could think any other way. But they do. When I went back to England for a year aged 8 I was baffled when they beat me up for being born in Pakistan.   I didn't get how anyone could be so prejudiced. But actually most people are. And it's not because they're evil. It's because they're human.

Psychologists think that there are distinct brain circuits that drive two very different modes of thought in regards to other people. We can treat them empathetically as humans we identify with, where the watchwords are: respect, kindness, compassion ...or as outsiders who we view as 'other' where the watchwords are fear, intolerance and disdain.  The first category are granted moral consideration, the latter are threats to be dealt with.  Now these two modes of thought are present in every human and depending which one is active, people will behave very differently.  

It is of crucial importance to the world's future as to which mode of thought becomes dominant.  Here's the thing. The difference between them is not hardwired. It's possible for a child to learn to gradually expand the circle of people she or he can identify with. It might start with just family and friends, but gradually it can extend to the local village, or town or country or race or religiion, or even, just maybe beyond that to the entire human family.  

There are probably many things that can cause this change, and finding out what they are might just be the most important educational research agenda there is.  But I'm certain of this: that one of the most profound and lasting impacts of a Woodstock education is indeed a dramatically extended circle of empathy.  You come to think of the world differently from many others. You love your friends who look so different from you.  You're appalled when you hear people mouthing ignorant, offensive generalities about other races or religions. 

Now in the past, this has often caused Woodstock students problems. They returned to their countries and found themselves the odd ones out. They struggled to connect with the values and assumptions of their peers. I did. Some of my classmates did.  But I think that's changing.  Here's why. The world is getting ever more inter-connected.  Driven by the Internet, telecommunication in the 21st century doesn't know any borders. Neither does trade. Neither does terrorism. Neither does the atmosphere.   It's becoming ever more obvious that all of our main problems ... and also all of our opportunities... can only be tackled by people taking a global perspective. 

In the future, those who use the language of fear and ignorance to stigmatize others will be increasingly regarded as backward, small-thinkers. The future belongs to global souls. To people like you. Because the true global souls are those who don't just talk it... they feel it. They know in their core that the only concept of "WE" that matters is the one that includes everyone.

Look, I don't just mean all this in a kumbaya knd of way. This is real and because of where the world's heading, it's actually going to help you in life.

Certainly, the Woodstock-inspired global soul instinct has been very good to me. When my life in England started feeling too small and I felt America calling... that was Woodstock. It opened doors of opportunity I could never otherwise have discovered.  When I took over the TED conference and decided, with my team, that the content was so good it had to be shared freely with the world... that was Woodstock. It turned out beautifully with millions around the world now participating in an event that had been closed.  And when just this year we started giving permission to people around the world to organize their own TED events so that already in year one 40,000 people in 50 countries have met locally to celebrate the power of ideas... that was Woodstock.

I owe this place an extraordinary debt of gratitude.  And whether or not you feel it right here right now, I promise you, you will too.

So that's my message. Think long and hard about this amazing gift you're receiving here. Without really trying, you are becoming a global soul. A child of the future. Cherish that. Be thrilled by it.  You and your classmates are on the winning side here. The world's ready for you. It needs you. Good luck. 

Comments (39)

Nov 02, 2009
UtaheBikes said...
What an incredibly beautiful school! I would love to teach here. Thanks Chris for sharing this moving story.
Nov 02, 2009
marcobianchi said...
Fantastic words. I am with you 110%.
Nov 02, 2009
Abhishek Suryawanshi said...
Simply great!!!
Nov 02, 2009
Sebastian said...
I love the sound of that--becoming a global soul.
Nov 02, 2009
Great story, Chris.
Nov 02, 2009
Dibyajyoti said...
Well, can't say much about school but what a beautiful place surrounded my nature in its full glory.
Nov 02, 2009
brians1999 said...
Thank you for this wonderful piece. We should all aspire to thinking and acting with a "global soul."
Nov 02, 2009
Vijay Basrur said...
Dear Mr. Anderson. Such an absolute joy to read this. Very inspiring for parents such as me, to ensure that our children are bought up with the global way of life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Nov 03, 2009
Anita Lobo said...
Chris: Wonderful story & carries an answer to the question: 'how do we foster thinking/living as global citizens'. If all children lived in a multi-cultural environment where intermingling was unavoidable, its possible to change the world in two generations.

The other tactic is: choose to marry someone who is from another country/ culture/ race/ religion! Not easy, but doable.

Warm regards,
Anita Lobo

Nov 03, 2009
Baahar Y. said...
Wow ... love this speech. Very well articulated.
Nov 03, 2009
shahabodin said...
"we all bleed" that was fantastic...:)
the audience would have definitely felt it by heart that u really have been a child before..:D
Nov 03, 2009
Elizabeth Rios said...
Thank you for sharing your story. Very well put.
Nov 03, 2009
Ruth Brading said...
Well spoken, brother! I would so have loved to have been there. Very proud of you! Look forward to reading/hearing about TED India R x
Nov 04, 2009
Addy said...
Incredible inspiring story. (Sometimes 140 characters are enough)
Nov 04, 2009
Pedro Pinto said...
There should be more people like you, all over the world.

Thanks Chris.

Nov 04, 2009
Andrew Jennings said...
Thanks Chris - you beautifully articulated what I've felt for years. I remember the shock of coming back to "civilization" and had similar experiences to yours...
Nov 04, 2009
Helen said...
Thank you so much for sharing this! I have spent an amazing 8 years at Woodstock, graduated in 2003 and it is the most memorable experience in my life! Woodstock has shaped me into who I'm today, my perspectives of life - no stereotypes (they are almost always wrong), no judgments!
Thank you for reminding me with your great story!
Nov 04, 2009
Suzanne Hanifl said...
Thank you Chris, for expressing what so many of us alumni know and feel. We certainly were fortunate to have the Woodstock experience and friendships which span the globe continue long after graduation.
Nov 04, 2009
charisma said...
it feels great reading this
being at woodstock for 9 yrs i know is the best gift that i could ever get
i have just graduated this year and am hoping to remain a "woodstocker" for life. thanks for those words
Nov 04, 2009
Brian Byg "1970" said...
SHA BASH Meri Bhai! When I came back to the U.S., I was considered a "Third Culture Kid" We are truely one. Lets make it one with the Universe. Great Job!
Nov 04, 2009
Thanks for articulating so beautifully what all of us Woodstockers have felt. I was even gladder that my daughter also got to feel it.
Nov 04, 2009
Ashoke Chatterjee said...
Thanks from another Woodstock alum for putting it so beautifully --- not just the Woodstock advantage and privilege, but the responsibility as well.
Nov 04, 2009
Rana Banerjee said...
Well said. As I wrote on my blog a few years ago:

"About two years is the most that I ever spent in any one ... Yet when I refer to my school, there is only one that I mean.
Woodstock is a strange little community in the hills of northern India. Though only a tiny fraction of the size of any comprehensive in the West, it housed the most diverse group of kids from every corner of the globe. From children of christian missionaries to Indian expatriates to foreign diplomats to refugees to locals to those who just couldn't cope in the lowlands, we had every kind of freak that you can imagine.
And so it fit perfectly"

Nov 04, 2009
Reid Blickenstaff, WOSA 1970 said...
When in 1970 you were sitting there in Parker Hall my mob was graduating -- or maybe had graduated some weeks before?

You have done wonders with speaking of that which we all need to do better: do our work and our play in such a way as to make the world a better place.

So many folk cannot seem to grasp that everything and everyone is connected, inextricably. We can pretend we're acting apart (say, running a Ponzi scheme), but sooner or later the fact of our connection to everything and everyone will overthrow our willful ignorance; reality comes crashing through.

Congratulations on being Woodstock's latest Distinguished Alumnus.

Nov 04, 2009
Barbara Byg Mahajan 1964 said...
I know that you have inspired the people who heard your speach and
now thanks to the internet, you will continue to inspire people from all
around the world. Thank you. Barbara Byg Mahajan 1964
Nov 05, 2009
Arun Thambidurai said...
when more people understand, what u said above... It would be very easy to find solution to any global issue.. good One..
Nov 05, 2009
Sujoy said...
values taught at schools are so idealistic that they hardly apply in real life
Nov 05, 2009
Well said Chris,

As some one who came along a good decade or two later - I can vouch for the enduring quality of our my cohort at WS which resonates with your thoughts - a deep bond between us - no matter how much we differed.

At the same time, I would suggest that it did not only have to do with mixing lots of different nationalities together - that is something that almost any international/expat school does - but I would argue that the strong and sacrificial Christian commitment of the staff provided a foundation in which we flourished. My father is a Kodai alum and made a conscious decision to send us to Woodstock in the mid 80s based primarily on the spiritual climate. I am very grateful for his wise decision.

Woodstock has shaped me in many ways. Helping develop a life-long challenge to observe, reflect, pray and then make choices (which can border on the courageous) is just one of them.

Nov 05, 2009
Marita Cheng said...
A beautiful story, Chris.
Nov 06, 2009
Mary Jara (Duerksen) said...
Thank you Chris for sharing your story with all of us. My family left in 1969 for the US and my childhood memories of Wookstock and Champa are still very vivid. Growing up with different cultures is so very rewarding. I was lucky to return in 1995 to 2000 with my father for short visits. Your inspiration is contagious! Thank you! Keep the message alive!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nov 07, 2009
Doug Pickett said...
Many thanks, Chris. I graduated in 1945 and served on the staff with my wife, Ann Leeder, a Class of 1947 graduate, in the mid-1950s, and still later served on the Boards of WOSA/NA and the school itself. Your words reflect elegantly what I tried to convey in my Foreword to Living on the Edge, that wonderful tribute to Woodstock in 2004 edited by Sally Stoddard and others. Shabash! I think it is remarkable that alumni of Woodstock ranging in age from 18 to 100, share such a strong bond with the school and with eachother. Doug Pickett
Nov 08, 2009
Charlene C. Connell said...
Dear Chris,
Congratulations on an award richly deserved! My husband Terry and I are graduates of the '50s and Woodstock is dear to our hearts and the source of our values and inspiration. You transported us back to Parker Hall and we were right there hanging onto every wonderful word. Reaching out to people with warm sincerity and humour are your gifts and delight your audience. Thank you for a remarkable speech and for filling us with joy at your stunning achievements and humility. May you continue to enjoy success as you creatively seek ways to be inclusive and make connections around the world, a shining example of Woodstock Spirit! Charlene Chitambar Connell
Nov 16, 2009
Simon Gough said...
Having lived in Fiji from age 5-9 (I am a New Zealander) I also feel that this upbringing in a foreign (and 3rd world) country has done alot to shape me as a person for the the better. Colour and background has never been an issue for me. We are all one people and what it has made hard, is my ability to understand why people act with such hate towards other humans.
Nov 17, 2009
quantum0gravity said...
so very right! one feels this when he/she comes out of successive levels of circles....home/town/state/country. We do start having more compassion towards those who were stuck in our brains as mere labels. This experience is like a big churning sea where all prejudices start dissolving and we start identifying with one another...
Nov 20, 2009
Nov 20, 2009
VeraFBirkenbihl said...
i hope that this message gets passed along many many times (cf my tweet). thanks for TED. we LINKed (and will do so) some some TED-Talk to birkenbihl.com/Favorites and many have thus "found you" and now go to TED directly which was my goal. all of you are going great work + enjoying it, i bet (i know tht feeling). have a wonderful day (or night, as the case may be).
vfb
Nov 20, 2009
birkenbihl said...
please, i am still new to web.2.o how can i FAVORISE this wonderful text of yours? i fail to see any favor...-button but then it might just be my ignorance. can you help?
vfb
Nov 20, 2009
birkenbihl said...
ps so sorry, tries to subscribe (RSS), it worked, there i found a tiny button, seemed to say I LIKE i pushed and now it reads i DON't like. please be patient, i am desperately trying to find my way. i wanted to just watch for a while but your post is so strong, i had to react. if you now habe 1 don't like, it would be my mistake (how to rectify). it not, no comment is necessary. sorry to bother you again.
thanks. vfb
Nov 21, 2009
Chris Anderson said...
birkenbihi, to favorite a post, you mouse over the title and then click the yellow star. But please don't worry... and thanks for your nice comment on the post.

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